As someone who lost my father a few years ago, I woke up this morning on Father’s Day with a mixture of emotions, reflecting and thinking of my dad. Taking a quiet moment on my own, lying in bed in the early morning, I felt compelled to write this blog. As I write these words, I can feel my emotions getting stronger, and tears began to drop from my eyes as I remember my wonderful father. It is in these moments of vulnerability that I am reminded of the profound impact he had on my life. Through sharing my experiences and insights, I hope that this blog serves as a source of comfort and understanding for those who have also lost their fathers.
Over the past few years, I have embraced various ways to honour my late father on Father’s Day, and one practice that has been particularly impactful for me is the act of reflecting on memories.

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Father’s Day is a special occasion that allows us to celebrate and express our gratitude to the incredible men who have played a significant role in our lives as fathers. It is a day filled with love, appreciation, and cherished memories. However, for those who have lost their fathers and no longer have the opportunity to celebrate with them on this earthly plane, Father’s Day can be a bittersweet reminder of their absence. But even though our fathers may no longer be physically present, their influence, guidance, and love continue to shape us. Today, we explore ways to honour and remember our late fathers on this day, celebrating their legacy and the everlasting bond we share.

Reflecting on Memories:

Father’s Day is an ideal time to reflect on the memories we shared with our fathers. Take some time to revisit old photographs, letters, or mementos that remind you of those precious moments. Allow yourself to be transported back in time, reliving the laughter, the advice, and the unconditional love. Embrace the emotions that arise, for it is through these recollections that we keep our fathers alive in our hearts.

Sharing Stories:

Sharing stories about our fathers is a beautiful way to honour their memory and ensure their legacy lives on. Gather with family members, friends, or loved ones who also knew and cherished your father. Share anecdotes, funny incidents, and heartwarming tales that exemplify his character and the impact he had on your life. Through storytelling, we not only keep our fathers’ spirit alive but also inspire others with their remarkable journey.

Visiting a Special Place:

For some, visiting a place that held significance in their father’s life can be a meaningful way to honour his memory on Father’s Day. It could be his favourite park, a fishing spot, a restaurant he loved, or even his final resting place. Spend some quiet time in that space, reflecting on the memories you created together and finding solace in the connection you still share. Feel his presence in the surroundings and take comfort in knowing that he will forever be a part of that place.

Carrying on Traditions:

Many fathers leave behind a legacy of traditions and values that are worth preserving. Embrace these traditions, whether it’s a special recipe, a family outing, or an annual event your father held dear. Carry forward the torch and keep these customs alive, ensuring that future generations can appreciate and honour your father’s legacy. By doing so, you perpetuate the love and teachings he bestowed upon you.

Acts of Service and Kindness:

Fathers are often known for their selflessness and willingness to help others. On Father’s Day, consider performing acts of service or kindness in memory of your late father. Volunteer for a cause he cared about, donate to a charity in his name, or simply extend a helping hand to someone in need. By channeling his spirit of compassion and generosity, you not only pay homage to your father but also make a positive impact on the world around you.


Father’s Day can be an emotional journey for those who have lost their fathers. However, it is also an opportunity to honour their memory, celebrate their influence, and cherish the bond that transcends physical existence. Through reflection, storytelling, visiting special places, continuing traditions, and acts of service, we can keep our fathers alive in our hearts and carry their love with us always. On this Father’s Day, let us remember and pay tribute to the fathers who are no longer with us, for their love and guidance continue to shape our lives.

Thank you,

Ben Sonoiki




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